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All Tantra/Taoist Therapy Rituals Can Be Customized - 24hr cancellation notice is required to avoid a $100 cancellation fee


Tantra roughly translated means “to weave” body, mind and spirit.  What this literally means is that you can expand your whole being through increased awareness of your senses, feelings and energy.  This includes awareness of your breath; the basis of all forms of meditation; with the addition of your sexual energy increasing your ability to feel – specifically feel pleasure – very different from other forms of meditation.


So how can Tantra affect your health?  Why is it a holistic form of  sexual healing?

Basically people feel little if anything.  They are mostly living their lives inside of their thoughts, judgments, evaluations and assessments: living in their heads.  When their bodies give signals, they miss or ignore them because they are trained to value only what the mind thinks.  So most people are numb or they do not feel very good.  When they do feel, it appears that they feel bad, sick, hurt, victimized. There gives very little room for pleasure.  As a matter of fact, they feel little to no pleasure at all.  Pleasure shows up as anticipation rather than a sensual experience, one that is felt in the body.

I'm are here to fix all that with my customized therapies





The clitoral healing session is generally viewed as the easiest type of therapy for a woman; so she can achieve an orgasm.  This is why  there is a fixation of both men and women in “getting her, hers first” idea.  Most women  deem this session the most pleasurable, but other women who experience G-spot orgasm, cervical, or whole-body orgasm may disagree with that.  In fact, many women believe that they are unable to achieve orgasm unless the clitoris is stimulated, even if this occurs only indirectly by way of friction from intercourse.  However, this is often because, with most sexual encounters, women don’t get enough time to awaken their vaginas and the sensitive spots internally to experience orgasm through stimulation of them.  If lovemaking was slowed down and extended long enough to really, REALLY arouse a woman before penetration, it is  safe to say that lots more women would be experiencing more than clitoral orgasm.  As well as the healing needed that has been covered in other orgasm types.  This too is the case with the clitoris. It is important to note that the clit can become over sensitive very easily and once this happens pleasure quickly becomes irritation and pain, killing a women’s hunger for sex.


Similar to the tip of a man’s penis, the clitoris can become desensitized as well.  This happens from too much extended massaging or friction.  Many women and men have been programmed to believe that rough is good on the clit, yet as with the case for everything, each woman’s clit is different.  Not just different from other women but different in sensation moment to moment.  It’s important to pay close attention and keep open communication flowing when in all of your sexing.


Duration & Fee - Customized Therapy & length of time is offered

Min 2 hrs  -  $400.00





Just a Bathing Ritual


Using  a variety of natural soaps, scented oils and sponges, your body will be caressed and relaxed.  Soft hands and adept fingers will move about and caress every minute part of your physical being, massaging your head and temples, neck, shoulders, ever further down to your most sensitive area.  Even your feet and toes will not escape attention.


The warm water will melt away your stress and relieve your anxiety. In time you will begin to think only of the sacred space you are in; and will soon be sharing what it is that you actual feel for the first time. You will begin to feel reborn; as  your newly  invigorated body is gently dried with fluffy warm towels, knowing that you are only beginning your adventure.


Duration & Fees - Customized Rituals & length of time if offered

Min 1 hr - $300.00





Lingam Therapy


The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam and is loosely translated as "Wand of Light." In Tantra or Sacred Sexuality, the Lingam is respectfully viewed and honored, as a "Wand of Light" that channels creative energy and pleasure.
Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam Therapy, although it can be a pleasant and welcome side effect.  The goal is to touch the sexual energy field of the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (prostate) externally, allowing the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be accustomed to.  From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the Therapy.
Men need to learn to relax and receive.  Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode.  The Lingam Therapy allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.

Lingam Therapy will bring you close to ejaculation over and over again;  backing off before reaching orgasm; then drawing that energy up the body, via breathe.   Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off on the stimulation; and harnessing the energy through proper breathe control.   Deep breathing is key here and will soften the urge to ejaculate.  Eventually ejaculatory mastery will allow you to make love as long as you want and you can become multi-orgasmic without losing a drop of semen.  Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn to separate.  The result is a very expanded sex life.


Duration & Fees - Customized Sessions & length of time is offered

Min 1.5 hrs - $400.00

Prolonged Session - 2 hrs - $600.00 (Stamina Enhancer)




Giving & Receiving


This session offers  the opportunity to be able to work on your god/dess and be worked on in return in a giving and receiving session.  This is done in an intimate ceremony with a guided organic rhythm after consent has been established, meaning that it is fully experiential & mutual.


There is no intercourse with this session. It involves you going through the body to body temple work on your practitioner; or if you have brought your partner, and gliding your energies in unison with one another.  This is where  you can indulge in a passionate exchange of energies, and be able to give and receive pleasure into the Shiva/Shakti energies.  Yab Yum will be with your Goddess in your lap, and for women with you in your Gods lap.  There is an integrating  union of Chakras (level 1) and breathe into the energy centers (level 2) and you will be able to fully feel what it is like to give and receive a Tantric Session;  so you can give and receive at the same time.


Duration & Fees - Customized Sessions & length of time is offered

Min 2 hrs - $750.00





Sexy Nutritional Consultations



Is the thrill gone? Has the sexy gone out of your love life and sex?   Do you just spend boring evening after boring evening together watching the prime time TV lineups.  On the weekends he watches sports with the guys, she goes shopping with the gals.  You eventually wake up one day thinking ; "Gee my life and sex life have gotten pretty dull!"


Well it doesn't have to be that way.  Would you like to put some spice back in your sex life?  Well you can. This session focuses on two main aspects of foods and nutrition; One:  what foods and nutrients are needed to help your body function properly for sex; and the other being, to help your brain properly function.

After all the main ingredient that makes sex exciting is the brain and how it functions and how well it functions, depends on your intake of sexy nutritional foods


Duration & Fees -  1 hr $150.00




Naked Yoga


This segment of healing is geared toward removing this shame, fear and other limiting self perceptions and instead bring you closer to pride, respect, honor, openness and acceptance.  Instructions will given to you through the session to help you gain confidence with your body.  We are all born naked.  It’s OK to be naked.  There should be nothing to hide.  Let’s get naked  and feel free again!


Duration & Fees

Min 1/2 hr - $100.00


Clitoral (Yoni) Healing - Female Clients Singular; or when you bring your partner

Male Erectile Dysfunctions

The Taoists practice what’s called “The Deer Exercise”.  It’s a simple rubbing and anal contraction exercise with many benefits:

1.    Strengthens the tissue of the sexual organs
2.    Draws energy up the spine through all seven glands
3.    Improves circulation and transports nutrients from the semen to the rest of the body.
4.    Replenishes energy in any weakened glands
5.    Builds sexual endurance

The deer exercise taps into the life-giving power of your sexual glands and distributes it throughout your body.  Since you will be contracting your prostate muscle, it will feel a little like an orgasm. 


Durations & Fees

Min 1.5 hrs - $375.00

Researchers shows that it is no secret that cuddling makes you feel good when you’re in a new or established relationship. It’s also something that you miss greatly when you’re single. But did you know there’s actually a scientific reason for that? It’s true! There are many surprising benefits of cuddling

Just as it boosts your immune system, cuddling and releasing oxytocin will decrease your pain levels. Whenever your neck hurts, what do you do? Rub it, right? Even simple touches like that release enough oxytocin to make you feel better, so imagine the effect cuddling has!


Communication is important in relationships, but people often forget how effective and meaningful touch can be. When your career is so stressful you come home and can’t stop thinking about the job, you’re taking a negative toll on your relationship. Instead, imagine coming home and cuddling with your partner for even ten minutes a day. This brief break from the stress of everyday life will not only give you all the other benefits listed here, but will also deepen your relationship. You’ll be taking time to focus solely on your partner and what you feel for them.


Cuddle Therapy is a platonic cuddling element within the Sex With Dr Zen Community, designed to help people with any need for touch or intimacy. Cuddle Therapy is an in-person, one-on-one intimacy and affection ritual, that provides non-sexual, therapeutic touch and intimacy coaching. It is also a part of the larger movement


Duration & Fees

Min half hour - $100.00



 Cuddle Therapy

Kink, Fetishes, Fantasies & Domination - (With a licensed Professional)

Are you looking to delve deeper into the psychology of Dom/sub play? Experiment with new implements, toys and role plays? Switch sides of the whip? Or perhaps just switch it up with a new partner to test a new dynamic and build a new relationship? We are your guides. Tell us what you already love, and we’ll happily suggest how to step it up and become the diabolically creative, technically-skilled, stern-yet-caring Dominant we all know you can be!

Duration & Fees


Beginners - 1 hr  $300.00

Intermediate - 1.5 hr  $400.00

Advanced - 1.5 hr $500.00

Couples - Min 2 hrs $700.00


Session Types for BDSM


Fantasy/Role play
Sensual BDSM
Traditional BDSM
Educational BDSM
Couple sessions


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